Am I a Cock Tease? Someone Thinks I am.

So my new shrink is much more upfront and more open with her opinions than my old one. She is also around 30 years older than my old one. Anyway, I was telling her a story about Juan
and explained that the first time he stayed over (which was way too early), we didn't have sex. (We didn't do anything significant, it was a pg 13 sleepover, AATW (All Above The Waist.) Her response to that was not "Isn't that sort of a tease?" It took me a few minutes to fully digest that a 70 something year old psychologist was calling me a cock tease. Then I said "No. I told him from the start that I wouldn't be having sex with him." Which is true. I don't mean "the start" of the date. I didn't walk into the restaurant and say, "Hi, how are you? I'm not going to sleep with you, FYI." It was once we were upstairs.