make love AND war (or why things would never have worked out with amiri)

so, i swear, even though people don't believe me, but i really am over amiri and glad we're friends. He even told me he was "seeing someone." Now, I was, of course, upset. BUT I was upset because I remembered how nice Amiri was at the beginning. And I was upset because I wanted to be "seeing someone." But I really wasn't upset that he and I weren't seeing each other. I did, kind of rudely say "it will work out because you guys live in separate cities." Anyhoo, the next time we talked about the girl he is seeing, I asked him what she did and all that. And he said "I dunno. I like her. She's into sports. She seems competitive." Now, to me, that would be a bad thing. I would say "I dunno I like him. BUT he seems competitive." Anyway, yet another reminder of our differences. They crack me up now. Before, they made me cry.